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Out of 8 billion+ people on the planet, there is only one YOU!!
Inadequacy is an Illusion:
We've all been there.
Scrolling through social media, catching glimpses of seemingly perfect lives, and feeling a pang of inadequacy.
Or maybe it's a conversation with a colleague highlighting their latest achievement, leaving you questioning your own progress.
It's a natural human tendency to compare ourselves to others but when it becomes a habit, it can be incredibly damaging to our self-worth and, more importantly, stifle the very essence of who we are.
Think of it this way:
Comparing yourself to others is like comparing a hammer and a screwdriver.
It sounds absurd, right?
A hammer is designed to drive nails, providing force and impact.
A screwdriver, on the other hand, is crafted for turning screws, requiring precision and torque.
Both are essential tools, valuable and effective for their specific purpose.
You wouldn't judge a hammer for its inability to turn a screw, nor would you fault a screwdriver for not being able to drive a nail.
To do so would be to completely miss the point of what each tool is designed to do.
And yet, this is precisely what we often do to ourselves.
We take the unique set of skills, talents, experiences, and perspectives that make us who we are and measure them against someone else's entirely different set.
We compare our chapter three to someone else's chapter twenty, our strengths in one area to their expertise in another.
It's a recipe for frustration and a breeding ground for self-doubt.
Why We Compare — and Why It Hurts:
The roots of this habit often lie in early experiences:
These experiences can create a powerful hesitancy to embrace our authentic selves.
We become afraid to stand out, to express our true thoughts and feelings, or to pursue paths that deviate from the expected.
We worry about being judged, criticized, or even rejected.
But here's the truth that breaks the cycle:
“When you realize nothing is wrong with you, you don’t have to fix anything. You get to create something.” - Peter Crone
Your uniqueness is not a flaw to be corrected; it's your superpower.
Just like a hammer is indispensable for certain tasks and a screwdriver for others, your individual blend of qualities makes you uniquely equipped to navigate the world and contribute in ways that no one else can.
When you spend your energy trying to be someone you're not, you not only diminish your own potential -
you also rob the world of the unique value you bring.
Imagine a world where every tool was forced to be the same...
...we'd have a lot of poorly driven nails and stripped screws!
Instead of Comparing:
Let's cultivate curiosity and appreciation for diversity.
Let's recognize that each individual has their own strengths, their own journey, and their own unique way of contributing.
And most importantly...
...let's embrace and celebrate the incredible, one-of-a-kind being that you are.
The world needs your specific brand of brilliance.
Final Reminder:
The next time you catch yourself in comparison, pause and remember:
You were never meant to be anyone else.
Your role isn't to replicate someone else's path - it's to honor your own.
You are not behind, broken, or lacking.
You are perfection exactly as you are - with infinite possibilities still unfolding."When you are authentic, you don't compete with anyone. You simply create in alignment with who you are — and that becomes your advantage."
- Dr. John Demartini 🩷
If this sparked something in you, you're invited to explore deeper.
You can browse the self-paced courses, book a one-on-one session, or join the waitlist for the Enjoy Being Human Membership—where we dive into the practice of integrating human and spirit and developing your own energetic awareness and gifts.
Ahmy Brock, Mon May 19, 2025A fun loving human that stopped surviving and started living.
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